August 31, 2010
Hi everyone,
It’s been awhile since I’ve caught up, so I thought I would back track a bit to catch you all up to date on Kyle’s progress.
In June we returned to Houston for a week of tests and consultations to determine the next step for Kyle to take. He’d had 2 months of avastin treatments, along with staying on the sodium phenylbutyrate from Burzhinski clinic. He was experiencing considerable pain in the area of his primary colon tumor, so we had scheduled another cat scan and were hoping there was no tumor growth. We were also scheduled for blood work and a repeat MRI of Kyle’s brain.
We stopped over in Dallas and had a nice visit with my brother, Jeff and his family. We left Dallas early so that we could get into Houston by 10:30 for Kyle’s first appointment at MD Anderson for his blood work. This was followed by a cat scan, and his MRI, all in different buildings. During the MRI, I received a call on my cell phone from Dr. Bloom. She said that the CT showed that Kyle’s colon tumor was dead, the other tumors in his lymph nodes and his pelvis were gone, but there was some spread in his liver and lungs. The zinger was that he had developed an abscess at the colon tumor site, because it had grown all the way through the colon wall – so when it was dissolving away it left a thin walled area, and caused a blow out which filled with infection. As soon as he was finished with the MRI, we were required to go directly to the Emergency Center, where he was admitted. It took them until about 3AM to move him to a private room, but eventually we got there. All of our things were still packed in the van in the parking ramp, and I called Homewood Suites to let them know that I wasn’t sure when we would be checking in.
After they got Kyle settled in his room, they also gave him two units of blood, since his blood work had also shown he had low hemoglobin again. So we were up most of that night. The next morning a surgical team came to visit and said that the first thing they would do is insert a drain through Kyle’s backside, into the abscess to drain the fluid. This was done on Thursday. On Friday they performed a colostomy, which diverted his colon above the abscess so that it comes out his side into a special bag. It was the only way to allow the rest of the colon to heal. So far this has been a fun trip. But at least we know that the colon tumor is dead, and what all of his pain was from.
We spent about a week in the hospital, and then were released to go stay at the Homewood Suites for a week. We were to come back for a final check up and consult before they would approve Kyle for the drive home. We also consulted with the Brezinski Clinic doctors. They said that avastin is no longer recommended for Kyle since he has had surgery because it can cause bleeding. So they recommended another similarly acting drug that also limits tumor growth by cutting off the cancer’s ability to build blood vessels to itself. They also recommended that Kyle begin oxcalyplatin, a chemo drug that has fewer side effect than some of the others, since his liver and lungs had continued to grow.
So we waited the week, had a whirlwind Monday of last consultations. The MRI had also shown good news, the brain tumors were dead or gone. I was beginning to pack that night, to leave on Tuesday, when Kyle began to bleed heavily. I ended up calling 911 and following the ambulance to a small nearby hospital. We spent another night in the emergency room, where Kyle received more blood. The next day they transferred him back to MD Anderson and another week in the hospital.
They removed his drain, which they said had gotten dislodged, and put in a new one, so then he had two holes, a literal pain in the butt. He complained about the pain from those drains more than all the other things he’d been through. They did a colonoscopy to try to locate the source of the bleed. They couldn’t find anything specific, just a lot of necrotic, dying tissue from the radiation treatments last spring. They confirmed that all of the visible tumor was dead. There did not appear to be any fresh bleeding, so they just kept him for a few days to make sure his hemoglobin was staying up and released us back to the Homestead Suites to wait another week before we were released to go home.
Our one week trip took us a month, and we are very very grateful to Ken and Carol Clark and to Dick and Lois Verheilles for the donations that helped us to extend our stay and bring Kyle home safe.
We had one appointment with Kyle’s oncologist in Madison after we got home, and made an appointment that Friday for him to begin treatment with the new targeted drug. However, we had been home only a week, when Kyle woke up at 6AM, bleeding again. We got in the car and drove to St. Mary’s hospital in Madison, and back to the ER. His hemoglobin was down to 6, and they gave him blood and admitted him. They did a procedure to cauterize some areas around the tumor, but said that there was so much friable tissue that they couldn’t be sure they’d gotten it all. It also left Kyle in a great deal of pain, to go along with the pain from the drain tube site. They had him on pretty high doses of oxycontin to control the pain, and he slept a lot and faded in and out a lot.
At least we were in town, so Britton and Patty, Rae, and Austin all came to visit – bringing me clothes and supplies from home so that I didn’t have to leave Kyle. They kept culturing his blood because he was running high fevers and they were afraid he had an infection of some kind – so kept him on IV antibiotics also. I told them I wasn’t really worried about the fevers as he has run them pretty regularly the whole time he’s had cancer. If it gets too high, we give him a little Tylenol to bring it down. But they weren’t convinced, so they kept him long enough for the cultures to come back negative three times. They were also trying to find a pain medication dosage that would work for us at home. When they did the cauterization they had also done another CT and said that the abscess was flat and drained, so the day before they sent us home, they also pulled out the drain tube. By the next day, Kyle only needed about half the pain medicine, and by a couple of days after we got home, we’d cut it by a fourth. He was in much less pain and making a lot more sense. So that was another week in the hospital.
The past three weeks, Kyle finally started on the herbivex (not at all sure if I’m spelling that right), which hasn’t made him sick, but sure makes him tired. He’s also had another blood transfusion. Just yesterday he had his first treatment with oxcalyplatin. He has to have those every other week, and the herbivex every week. He is also staying on the medicine from Houston. We began going back for Vitamin C infusions once a week to help his immune system, and to help cope with the side effects from chemotherapy. Our hope is to get him down to no visible disease.
Unfortunately all this hospital time, and with being drained from the treatments, has kept him from working, and our business has dwindled significantly.
On the happy side, my brother, Jay received a settlement from a cycling accident he was in over a year ago (he’s OK now), and is donating $5,000 of it to us and also another @$1000 that he raised by running an iron man competition in Canada. So, now we have the money for the September meds.
On October 1, CancerFuture is holding a golf outing and silent auction at Yahara Hills Golf Course in Madison, WI. Please go to www.cancerfuture.org for information. If you can donate time to work that day or donate an item for auction, please call Jodie at 608-212-8749. If you would like to sponsor a hole or golf, please call Rae at 608-592-3859, or follow the directions on the web site.
On a personal note, Britton and Patty just finished in the show “Into the Woods” at Portage Community Theater. It was great to see them on stage again, and this time Britton had a lead. We really enjoyed the performance. Austin participated with his friend Josh’s band at the Green Lake battle of the bands. Josh spent the summer with us here in Lodi, and is now back to school at Osh Kosh. Austin is back to school at Clarke University in Dubuque, IA. Jason is in Los Angeles in training as a store supervisor for a Pinkberry frozen yogurt store, and also works night shifts at Hilton Garden Inn. He is also lead singer in a band called No Regime, which just competed in Battle of the Bands at the Las Vegas Hard Rock Café. We are very proud of all of them.
We just got back from a week trip to Myrtle Beach, SC. Kyle’s Dad used some of his Blue-Green resort points to get us a unit on the beach across the hall from George and Rose. Kyle didn’t have much energy. He had always wanted to golf Myrtle Beach with his dad. We took his clubs, but he never had a day good enough to try the courses. We also took his wheel chair, so we took him for a couple of nice walks on the board walk, and got to spend some wonderful time with his dad.
Congratulations, you are officially caught up. Thanks for taking the time to read this through. We appreciate all the thoughts and prayers and ask that you hang in there with Kyle for the long haul.
Love,
Jodie